Thursday, November 21, 2019
3 Situations When Its OK to Say No to Your Boss
3 Situations When It's OK to Say No to Your Boss 3 Situations When It's OK to Say No to Your Boss Whether you have a great boss or an overly demanding one, youâll most likely land in a scenario where youâre asked to do something you donât want to do. Maybe your manager will ask you to tackle a lowly administrative task you feel is beneath you. Or maybe youâll be summoned to a meeting you have no desire to attend. Saying no to your boss is hardly easy, and often, it actually isnât warranted. After all, just because you loathe doing paperwork doesnât give you the right to avoid it. And while you might consider meetings a drag, that doesnât let you off the hook, attendance-wise. But there are some situations where saying no is perfectly reasonable. Here are just a few. We all work late from time to time, and many of us work late more often than not. If the latter is a common practice at your company, youâll probably have a hard time saying no most of the time. But that doesnât mean you canât ever push back. At some point, your manager has to realize that youâre a person with responsibilities, obligations and interests outside of the office. And if youâre never given a chance to be a person, youâre going to burn out very quickly. So if your boss requests that you stay late for what will end up being the fourth or fifth night in a row, politely but firmly explain that you have personal items to tend to that you can no longer put off, and since youâve spent the better part of the week working late, you need a night to yourself. Any reasonable manager will understand where youâre coming from. And if yours doesnât, it may be a sign that itâs time to find a new job. Itâs a good thing to be busy at work, because it means that your company clearly needs you around. But there comes a point when you can only handle so much of a load, so if your manager asks you to tackle a new project and youâre already clocking in 50 hours a week or more, you shouldnât hesitate to respectfully decline. If you explain to your boss that your overall performance will suffer if youâre forced to spread yourself too thin, with any luck, they will understand. And if not, try masking a no with an alternate proposal along the lines of, âWhich of my current tasks would you like me to unload to take on this new one?â Thereâs a difference between checking your email every so often while away and spending hours at your laptop during whatâs supposed to be a vacation week. If your boss requests that you do the latter, you have every right to refuse - politely, of course. Chances are, youâve paid quite the premium to get away, and as long as you made a point to tackle your pressing projects and train a backup before heading out of the office, you have every right to enjoy that trip to the fullest, without interruptions. If your boss isnât the respectful type and insists that you jump in on a given task, you can always play the spotty internet card. Just make sure to stay off social media so your manager doesnât find out and call your bluff. Itâs natural to want to please your boss, but the last thing you want to do is risk your personal life and sanity in an effort to boost your reputation. So if you happen to land in any of the above scenarios, donât be shy about speaking up for yourself. You may come to find that it actually helps your career in the long run. This article was originally published by The Motley Fool . Reprinted with permission.
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